P.S I love you!

Finally got around to watch this movie last night,liked it but it also got me thinking a bit..
The movie teaches you that life can be so unpredictable sometimes that just when you have everything planned till the last detail, something happens which makes all your well thought out strategies bite the dust in a matter of seconds.
All the more reason that life should lived to the fullest and as if each day is your last day,which does not mean getting so drunk that you end up puking on the person next to you or killing someone by driving rashly or getting sillicon implants to impess someone or shoplifting for the kick of it,being rude to people just because they are below you or different from you and certainly does not mean that you take sanyas and go up to the himalayas(you can always do that if you want to..)
It means telling your parents and siblings "I love you" ..making that special call to someone you were angry with or have'nt spoken to in ages, giving away some food or money to a needy person and watch his face lighten up or perhaps getting your hands on that special pair of shoes ,book or perhaps special someone.
Whatever it is I urge you and myself as well to go ahead and do that...life is tool short to live with any kind of regrets or fears...you want to do something don't put it of for later do it now and do it well even if you failed atlest you tried and that always counts for something does'nt it..?

Getting older rocks..!!

The first question that my old school mate asked me as soon as she met was Megha aren't you getting married ...you are like 26 girl..wrong side to be on better get hitched asap.
Only when people look at me with wonder does the full impact of being a 26 yr full grown up woman really hit coz quite frankly I don't feel a day older than 21. They say that even I look youger(thank god for that ) so it comes across as quite a surpise to people when they come to know about my age.So you think it ends here well no it does'nt because then the people start cross questioning me ..
They:Boyfriend?
Me:Huh No!
They:Why Not?
Me :Never Got around to finding the right one
They:You are lying aren't you?
Me:Hell No why would I lie I am way above the legal age of 18 and If I had one why would I hide it.
They:Are you gay or something?
Me(fuming by now):No absolutely not
They:Well then are you blind or crazy or something and the conversation goes on...
I tell you being single is definitely not easy either you are gay or you need psychiatric help.. I am neither so I am going continue living my life,pretend to ignore the boyfriend question and in the meanwhile be on the lookout for one who himself is neither gay or insane...know anyone who fits the bill do send his contact details to me...

I like my own company...thank you very much!!

Sometimes I just like to be left alone,alone in my thoughts,secluded in my own company.
Now is that bad ..yes according to a lot of people because humans detest being alone they like being surrounded with their own kind 24*7.
Now thats an irony in my case since I get scared if I am around people for too long...don't get me wrong I love being around people and enjoy great conversation.
Till a certain point I am fine then i need to withdraw into my shell,recharge my battery,introspect,learn from mistakes and then come out feeling wiser..refreshed and raring to go.
It's just that I can't be around people morning,noon and night, it scares the shit out of me especially being around people who constantly complain,crib and our mostly negative all the time(even those who talk too much).
Those kind specially make me want to run for my life because such people I feel drain your energy and after meeting them you also start thinking negative.
That does not mean that I don't crib and complain...i do..but I dont get carried away with it.I speak out and thats it I dont take it to my heart or keep a grudge..once its out of my system it's out.
Back to returning where I started from I think being a loner sometimes has it's benefits..it helps me stay focussed and in control..saves me from going insane and actually gives me time to assimilate the good that I want in my life and filter out the bad.
So go ahead don't be scared of being in your own company once in a while,it might actually turn out well ..who knows you might even turn out to be the best of friends!!!!!

My first day as an intern

I had a nice day today...met some really nice people at my workplace-oridnary people, people you probably would'nt give a second glance to if you met them on the road but I guess that's what attracted me first to this place.Simple and straight forward people who do not have any attitude problem the only thing they do have is kindness and love which they display quite openly.The way all of them welcomed me felt like I had been part of their organization since ages.
Another thing that my professor-Vinod Sir used to teach, came out true..he said no organization could prosper and have a pleasant work culture if it did not have its values and ethics intact.Proud to report this place has its roots firmly in place.I am lucky, I think I got what I was looking for .
Will try and do justice to this nice homely environment that I am going to become a part of and hopefully things will work out just fine.
Well tommorrow another day in the life of Megha so I should be sleeping but not before thanking god and remembering what my mother always says "whatever happens,happens for the best only" hence leave things to him when in doubt..I did and you know what touchwood it has worked out better than I imagined..